Tuesday, 3 March 2015
We're not in Africa anymore Dorothy
OK, Dorothy isn't with me but Nancy is. We are in Faversham, Kent, England. We have a beautiful room in the Sun Inn, originally built in 1349. Yes, 1349. As a Canadian it is hard to even imagine 1349, but here you see this kind of history everywhere you turn. It's in the cobblestone streets, in the residences that have withstood centuries of wear, and in the churches where people mourned and buried their dead-marking the graves with sad missives carved in stone in the 1500s. It's a different world than Africa, and Nancy and I are both grateful for that. The pace is slow here, the weather crisp, it's what we need.
How did we get here from Africa? It's a good question. A long time ago I started researching our family tree, and Faversham is the heart of our father's tree. I have walked the street that my great grandfather, Horace, walked as a child and stood on the porch of the house he lived in when the 1881 census was done. Down the street from the Sun Inn, at 1 West Street, is where my great great grandmother was living in 1841. I've walked to the Faversham creek where, no doubt, my ancestors came to relax and play in their childhood. And perhaps, just maybe, I have sat with Nancy and shared a night cap in the same pub as Horace or Samuel or Julia did over a century ago. Nancy has been wonderful, traipsing through graveyards (grid pattern splitting up works best) looking for the markers that will tell me more about my ancestors, she's been very successful to date and we still have one more day to go.
So this isn't Africa. Am I missing Ghana? In a way I am. I miss the people, and the new adventures that one anticipates will be around every corner. But that's looking back now, and I'm looking forward to getting on the plane on Friday in London and coming home to see my family and friends. It's been a long trip and I'm thankful for this little town that is rejuvenating and relaxing, and for the chance to walk on the soil of my forefathers.
Monday, 2 March 2015
You're Not Pretty When You Cry
I hate goodbyes. They are so sorrowful and really difficult to deal with. Most of the coaches just got on a bus to Heathrow, they are disbursing to different parts of the world to go live the lives they left behind when we started this journey. And it is a journey. I hugged Jackie, Laurie and Katherine-it is their first journey to Africa, and I remember what it was like last year saying goodbye. They are going home with stories that will touch the hearts of coworkers and friends, and they will be thinking of coming back next year. I hugged Liam and Larry, gentlemen that they are, their lives forever changed because of the women they were forced to live with for the past fortnight. And Louise, she has kept me sane and in good humour for the past two weeks, how do you say thank you for that? You don't, you just give hugs and pleasantries and then you cry. At breakfast this morning we were chatting about what we were doing today. Some were leaving, others were going to enjoy some sights this city has to offer. A couple were thinking of checking off "Phantom of The Opera" on their bucket list, something that we did on Saturday. Some are going to see Buckingham Palace, Westminster Abbey, Trefalger Square. But nobody is doing what Nancy and I are.....when they asked us we were unique. We were the only ones that could say,
"We are going to Faversham."
I know, I can almost see the blank look in your eyes. It is the same look that those around the table gave us this morning. Deer in the headlights. In the late 1800s Horace Bloxham Hawkins, my great grandfather, made his way across the ocean from Faversham to settle down in Winnipeg with his lovely wife Bessie. I am going to find my roots. I am going to stand on the soil of my forefathers, wander the streets they wandered over a century ago, and hopefully find where they were laid to rest. The journey ended this morning when the coaches started to say goodbye, and now my new jouney, however short, is about to begin.
We are going to Faversham. I am going with my illustrious partner from last year, Nancy, who is "along for the ride," If you think you had a blank look on your face when you read that line you should see the looks Nancy is getting. She happily describes splitting up to cover more ground in the graveyard, she has a plan.
So now dear readers, I have to take my leave. I am going to find the house Horace was raised in, and the house that his father, Thomas, was born in. Hopefully there is a story in Faversham. If there is I will be sure to let you know.
Saturday, 28 February 2015
What's right is wrong, and left is right
This isn't a physically stuck in Africa. This is a mentally stuck there, I think very similar to last year, only last year I could hold my breath and hope that I did a good enough job that CCA would be able, in good conscience, to invite me back for a second year. this year is the end of my two year commitment so now there's a real possibility that I may never set my feet on Ghanaian soil again in my lifetime and that is cause for reflection. We have arrived in London for the debrief. The Ghana CCA and Irish coaches have had a wonderful day, thanks to Louise for dragging us around London for 12 full hours of unbelievable sites. We toured Westminster Abbey. I can check "See Phantom of the Opera at the place it began" off my bucket list. We did The Tube. We walked in the rain together. Nancy used the umbrella to protect my Phantom program from getting wet inside its protective plastic bag. We are now nicely fitted in our hotel rooms, with hot water and what seems to be unlimited power. I got to message Sandy tonight with no interruption of wifi. I should be delighted.
OK Louise, which way? |
#CCAcoaches meet again! |
Look, no hands! |
I have to chalk it up to jet lag. I had a wonderful day with wonderful people, in a wonderful city that has a rich history and beautiful sites....but I'm missing Ghana already. Tomorrow morning is our debrief, maybe that will put everything into perspective for me. For tonight I'm just thinking that the right is wrong, and the left is right, I'm not too sure which way to look crossing the street unless I'm staring at Liam or Louise's back and just blindly following...and I've had a beautiful journey so far.
Can I describe this day.
Regina, another inspiring woman |
How can Kofi be 80??? |
Friday, 27 February 2015
It's almost over....again
Wednesday, 25 February 2015
Tuesday, 24 February 2015
Lost In Translation
The Ghanain people are by far the most hospitable that I have come across in my travels thus far. That being said, although English is the official language here there are over 70 tribal languages that are spoken. Most are "mutually intelligible" according to my sources [Wikipedia] but we must realize that sometimes things may inadvertantly [or purposely] get lost in translation. I thought, if you were kind enough to "slog through my blog" yesterday, with the visions of Debbie standing by the sea darkly reflecting on humanity, you may need a little humour to make up for it and maybe have you visit again. So, instead of taking you through yesterday [which was a wonderful day at Ramseyer CU and the meeting with the full Board was fantastic] I will give you a few "faux pas" that have occurred to Louise and I over the weekend and tonight.
Firstly, you all know the story of ending up on a canopy walk instead of a slave castle...this is an example of purposeful rather than accidental. Nancy and Larry's driver, Bright, listened to them when they said that we all wanted to do the Elmina slave castle Satrday and then, becase they had a shorter drive home, they wanted to do the Kakum canopy walk Sunday morning. As near as we can figure Bright decided there was way more time to do the canopy walk on Saturday, and the slave castle Sunday AM.....it didnt occur to hìm that we planned it in such a way to avoid some severe phobias.....lost in translation, you know the outcome, I walked the canopy walk.
For a week or more now I have been thinking I am the center of the universe. OK, Sandy caused this, but I walk down the street and everyone is calling my name. DEBBIE!debbie!debbie! I always turn around and smile although they don't seem to be particularly interested in me...and always seem to be saying my name with a little venom...Today I remembered to ask Alfred what my name meant in Twi. He said it didnt mean anything, which clearly is disppointing to someone who is the center of [Sandy's] universe. Then he got a good chuckle. All those people calling my name on the street...."Daabi" is the Twi word for "no", Burst my bubble. Lost in translation.
Tonight, knowing that we should not anticipate anything on the menu for fear it isnt available Louise and I asked our friendly waiter, Fred, if the chef had any pizza [we have lucked out once during our stay]. Fred rushed off and came back saying no, there was no pizza, but he could get us one. What a nice lad. We told him around 6 PM to have it delivered. Our other waiter, Michael, came up to us shortly after and asked us what we felt like for supper as the chef had two pizzas left. We thought Fred had gone to Michael and talked to him about the pizza. At 6 PM tonight Fred delivered the delivery pizza to our table. About the same time Michael brought our pizza from the kitchen,,,,don't ask, we bought the wait staff a pizza for their dinner tonight...lost in translation.
Power outages are common here, tonight was no exception. Louise and I had settled ourselves around the pool and were busy writing our report when the power went out. Normally the generator kicks in at the 5 minute point, but it didnt this time. I am a big subscriber to Louise's mantra "Dont let it in" [meaning eyes forward, it's all good] but when the giant bug landed on me I did let out a pre Africa shriek [but maintained my sense of humour]
Michael: "Ma'am, have you both provided for the mosquitoes?"
Me: "Yes Michael, we have blood."
Michael: "Very good ma'am. Thank you, all is fine."
Louise and I thought that was good crack, [here's your Irish saying for the day] and giggled a little as he walked away, assured we had provided for the mosqitoes.
The power outages are a little like camping, blackout conditions but the possibility of reprieve with a little light. Now, the "light" is a segway as we had the best day of our skin turning into other's amusement today. We were at our new credit union and we were taking a walk around the block to bounce some ideas around. We walked by two older ladies, one was staring at us intently so I said hello. She didnt answer, but held my gaze until we passed. I felt that she was still looking at us so I stopped, turned around, and she was staring at Louise's legs. She looked, laughed, then went on her way....lost in translation? Louise has the perfect white skin like Delainey, but I have to admit, she does stand out here in Ghana. She stops toddlers from crying and school children in their tracks, both of which happened today.
I can only wish I had that much attention....it will never be the same....."Daabi! Daabi!"
Monday, 23 February 2015
Elmina Slave Castle and Humanity
Canadian author, Lawrence Hill, penned "Book of Negroes" in 2007, for those of you who haven't read it this is a book that you cannot put down. I'm prefacing this post with the fact that I have read this book (among others about the slave trade) and it may make me a little pensive in the writing, just like I was pensive the whole day today. It could be that I was still reeling from actually doing the canopy walk at Kakum, but I needed a little time by myself last night. I walked down to the ocean and stood and looked out over the vast expanse wondering if there was much difference from the look of the ocean in the late 1700s and early 1800s. Probably not. I could see Elmina castle (St. Georges Castle) in the distance, a place that best be remembered forever for the number of lives lost in it's stone dungeons and the number of lives forever changed as the slaves left their homeland through the "door of no return." This was a powerful experience, one that I liken to Sandy's and my tour of Auschwitz in 2012. So many souls left this earth in this structure, it's almost palpable as you walk through it. Our guide told stories as we entered each area-here, there were at least 150 women, children and babies with four small pots in each corner to relieve themselves....here is where the governor stood as the women were brought out into the yard for him to choose one....here is where the men were thrown who tried valiantly to revolt-only left to die with no food or water. It could be up to three months that these men, women and children sat in the filth of this place before the ship came to take them away. To what? Fates worse than death in many cases. Three months. The strength of the people echoes in the walls.
I'm reminded again how many times that humanity has been lost. How many times people have turned a blind eye to something so utterly wrong....you can only pray for the souls and hope that you have the strength to not turn a blind eye in the face of a travesty like this.
Sunday, 22 February 2015
Have fear....conquer fear
Last night was interesting. Now, I want to let you know that this hotel we are in is very nice, and although there is no hot water you really don't need it because it's so hot. I have a bathroom, a little balcony and a bed which is all I need. I was in the bathroom last night getting ready for bed (excited about the coming visit to the slave castles!) when a little movement caught my eye. There seemed to be something coming up the toilet. I did what any good camper would do, I sat on the edge of my tub, interested. A few minutes later up came a small snake....he looked at me, I looked at him, he looked at me.....I flushed. Wow. Something to laugh about, but my heart was pounding....looked like a baby, where was mom? Why did he pick me? Why Room 119? Why tonight? As I sat on the tub it appeared that he wanted to answer all these burning questions and he reappeared in my toilet again. I bolted to the phone, called the front desk, and they told me "Flush it madam." I came back in and looked at him, he was actually trying to get back down my drain (which I was relieved about) and I helped him do it. If you love something...set it free.....he didn't come back. My wonderful husband, forever the recorder of all occasions on his camera, had one question: "Did you get a picture?" No, honey, no....it slipped my mind. I will try to do better next time.
8 bridges
3 Lord's prayers
25+ "I'm scared" repeated rapidly for an entire bridge
15+ "I can't do this" again, rapidly in succession.
20+ "He said don't look down, so don't look down. YOU LOOKED DOWN YOU IDIOT"
I videoed myself on the first bridge, just to hear it afterwards. It's not pretty. But I did it. I beat my fear for once. And I'm Debbie, I think I might have had a little Abenna in me today, but I'm Debbie and I can do a canopy walk!!! POWER!!!!
Thursday, 19 February 2015
I had a Vision
Readers, let me introduce you to Mrs. Deborah Serwaah-Asamoah. She is the Credit Manager of St. Martin de Porres Co-Operative Credit Union Ltd. Not only does she hold this post, she also oversees all 17 of their mobile bankers, and the operation of the mobile banking department. She's young, only 30. She's feisty. She's got great ideas. And she's a graduate of the CCA Women's Mentorship Program where she stayed not only in Ottawa but in Olds, Alberta for almost a full month away from this beautiful country. Deborah is pictured in the mobilization centre for mobile bankers, she took us on a tour today and it wasn't until we were almost done that I fully realized the affect that these people can have on the lives of the "Traders" on the streets of Kumasi. Mobile bankers go out Monday to Friday to their members, moving from shop to shop and street trader to street trader collecting, recording and encouraging further savings. The traders try to save 10 GHc ($3 Cdn) per day in hopes someday to be able to get a loan to enhance their trade. Deborah's team makes it happen. She sees the future, and she understands her part in it. She also respects the past. So much so that the first introduction that Deborah makes to us here at the mobilization centre is Mr. Amoako, the founder of St Martin de Porres Co-operative. "Mr. Amoako, please meet Abenna Debbie from Canada and Effie Louise from Ireland." He says, and he means it, "You are most welcome."
He motions for Louise and I to sit down, and we do. For some reason I feel like I am in the presence of greatness, so as we exchange pleasantries about where we are from, and why we are here, I am formulating a question that maybe will yield the answer to leading change....the answer to mobilizing thousands for the good of so many....we talk about our homelands. We talk about his current role helping the mobile bankers with their member's loan applications. We talk about how he founded the cooperative in his church, on Sundays, to help his parishioners save. Then he came to the realization that there were more people, right outside the gates of this church, who needed to save their cidid as well so they opened it up to the community. Then, in the moment the conversation lapses I jump in. "Mr. Amoako, you are truly admired by many. The credit union you founded has helped so many people. Please, may I ask, what motivated you to start such a venture?"
He looked at me, moved his glasses down his nose so we were eye to eye. I kind of felt like he was staring right through me. "I had a vision."
I had this fleeting thought of how wonderful it was to meet these leaders today.
Then he waved his hand, there were members waiting to see him, and we were in their chairs.
And I, dear readers, have too. Leaders of the present surround me here in Kumasi, I cannot wait to see what tomorrow brings.
Wednesday, 18 February 2015
Obruni does it again
Tuesday, 17 February 2015
Louise and Deb's Excellent Adventure
Monday, 16 February 2015
CUA House and away!
This afternoon we met our driver who will be with us for the duration, his name is Bright. His actual name is Kofi (and I will get the rest because I need him to write it down). Each day of the week for each gender has a different name....Kofi is a male, and he was born on a Friday. He has another name that goes behind Kofi, but we need to spend some more time with him to get it right before putting it on the internet forever. According to the internet I would be "Abenaa Debbie" because I am female and born on a Tuesday (don't worry readers, if you don't know what day you were born and wish you knew your Ghanain name there is an endless source of information at your fingertips!). I will research this and get back to you.
CUA house in in the core of Accra, and this is where we did a briefing today. "You are most welcome" is the greeting here. The general manager of credit unions in Ghana spoke today at length with us, and peppered throughout his talk was "you are most welcome". For us it seems strange to say "thank you" after "you are most welcome" but it only takes a couple of times to get into the swing of things again. We feel welcome, and we are itchy to get to work with our credit union partners here!
I've decided to entice you into coming back to read more. Every blog will have a special "Irish language edition" that will feature how little I know this lilting language.....here is your first, sitting in the restaurant over lunch:
Debbie: I said something about Galway. (note: "gal" is easy to pronounce right? So Galway is too, am I not correct?)
Liam: Learn how to pronounce it!
Louise: It's Golway (note: soft "o" like in olive oil)
Debbie: But, you know that's an "a" right?
Larry: Yup, it's silent.
Now readers, you can travel to see the lads in Galway and have a wee bit of fun while you are there. Signing off with a picture of all of us at the CUA House (head office).....flying to Kumasi tomorrow, cannot wait!
Sunday, 15 February 2015
Close your eyes....and decipher
We won't get into too much detail about the airport...suffice it to say that by the time we found our bus to go to the hotel we had a minimum of five Ghanains "leading" us to the bus, all who were expecting to be tipped! We landed at 8:20 and got out of the airport at 10:30, and firmly ensconced in the hotel by 11. There are six of us here, Nancy (my esteemed partner from last year), Liam and Louise from Ireland, Heather from Toronto, Larry from Saskatchewan and me...so we decided that a quick Ghanain style pizza was in order. Here are a few tidbits for future stories.....
Larry told a great joke tonight at the airport. A wonderful Ghanain man was chatting with him and knew the general vicinity of SK as a province. Larry said (ROTFL) "Yeah, it's where you can watch your dog run away for three days and still see him." I laughed so hard.....as I am sure those of you who have had the privilege of driving through SK would too....but in Ghana, we are told, dogs may not be the pets we see them as back home. In Ghana, Larry may need to revise his jokes. In Ghana, being able to see your dog run away across a vast expanse of flat land is incomprehensible....
For this of you who know what Orange is, here's my Orange moment...speaking of incomprehensible.... I am honoured, excited and genuinely pleased to have a new partner this year. (Wait, there's a tie in, be patient). Her name is Louise. She hails from Galway, Ireland. And I need to learn how to lip read. She is the FASTEST talker you have ever met (don't worry, we have two weeks together so I will get video). And I think she is fantastic. I just wish I knew what she was saying. (SEE, SEE the tie in??) It's OK, because she was a little worried about how well Nancy and I got along last year, so now we both are going to be overcompensating...but how many times can a Canadian say "pardon me?" without offending our partner? Well, you are so lucky, you get to find out the answer to this and many other questions in the next two weeks at the same time as me! A debate to come, Louise believes I will be talking Irish by the end, I think she'll be talking Canadian.....
Saturday, 14 February 2015
I Wont Tell A Single Story
Its February 13. I'm on a plane about to cross the ocean, stop in London then fly to Accra. When I post this it will be Valentines Day (love you Sandy) which is why you need to know the real date.
I know, you are awaiting stories from Africa. Me too, believe me. It was training day at CCA today and just like last year I had an "ah hah" moment. Last year it was a phrase, "culture eats strategy for breakfast," and oh, how I have used that one this year! Today we were shown a Ted Talks video. It was a well spoken woman from Nigeria, and she spoke about not telling a single story.
I know. What? Here is my take (because each of us takes something slightly different right?).....don't tell one story, you need to tell many. If I tell you one story from Africa and it is about someone suffering in poverty, then I dont tell you another story about how cooperatives are helping this person OUT of poverty then your image of Africa is frozen in that first story. Powerful. If you have a few minutes take a peek, especially if you like telling stories like me.
http://www.ted.com/talks/chimamanda_adichie_the_danger_of_a_single_story?language=en
Thursday, 12 February 2015
Monday, 9 February 2015
Africa? Why?
- Last year at this time I had a number of well meaning friends who, very concerned, asked "Why? Why do you feel the need to do this? At your age?"
- Now, as a returning coach, and by far a more committed member of the cooperative movement, I feel equipped to answer. "Why not?" No, my dear friends, I will not bring ebola back to Canada (Ghana has never had a confirmed case.) I will, however, bring back stories of how the credit unions have changed the lives of every day people. Is that enough "why"?
- If not enough then, perhaps I can bring back enough pride in the cooperative movement to motivate one member who has never voted before to embrace their right in the democratic process.
- I'm also going to take you, my dear readers, with me on this adventure. I want you to feel the red dirt beneath your feet and smell the market as you walk through with me. I want you to stare into the eyes of the child who is too frightened to touch your skin, and into the eyes of a father whose mission in life is to put his children through school because he may be able to do something his parents could not.
- In a few days I will @CUinAfrica and I hope you will join me.
Sunday, 25 January 2015
Kumasi! Kumasi! 18 days and counting
Another adventure is about to begin. At first when I heard where the coaches were going this year I had a fleeting moment of "Oh no, what will I write about?" All 6 coaches going to Ghana (four of us from Canada and two from Ireland) are going to major urban centres. Now that I have spent some time researching I know this is going to be another amazing adventure. Louise, my partner from Ireland, and I are going to Kumasi. Want to compare two cities?
Kumasi is the second largest city in Ghana with an area of around 265 sq km. In that area about 2 million people reside. Our fair city of Edmonton is approximately 635 sq km in area, with around 820,000 residents. Sounds like its going to be easy to meet LOTS of people! We will be visiting three credit unions while we are there, and hopefully we will be able to help them grow, prosper, and help their communities.
I hope you will join me on this wonderful adventure, and I will try my best to create images in your mind that will put you right there with me.